My grandparents were divorced when my father was young and he did not have much contact with his mother after that. Because of this, I never knew her or much about that side of the family. I am sure that it was a bit painful for my father so not much was ever said. Still, I was curious about these missing ancestors and searched for information about them. One thing I found was a biography on my great-great grandfather, Reuben Holcomb (my father's great-grandfather) and a pioneer in Wisconsin.
Did you ever have a "genealogy moment" . . . a time when you made a key discovery that opened the door to your entire family history? That happened to me in the summer of 2008.
That was in 2002. For the next few years, I would occasionally search for family names but most of the time, I came up empty. But something was happening with on-line research that I was not aware of. More and more searchable information was becoming available, some for free and some for a price. Fast forward to 2008. On a Friday afternoon as the work day was ending, I started typing in some names. I was actually typing in Goldner, another of my father's ancestors, who were from Chicago. All of a sudden, I came across a Louis Goldner born in 1861. I had been to the cemetery in the western suburbs and also had an obituary for Louis so when I saw this I knew it was my Louis. The information was on a website called Kindred Konnections and I would need to fork over $18.00 for a one month membership if I wanted to get any additional information. This was the first time I had found anything in quite a while so, a little desperate, I signed-up. I did find some valuable information on Louis and his brothers and parents. Not a lot but it was stuff I did not have. Since the membership was paid for, I decided to type in some other names. So I entered Reuben Holcomb and that is when my genealogy moment happened . . . jack-pot . . . there he was. Not only was Reuben listed but also included were his ancestors all the way back to Thomas Holcombe and the beginnings of this country. I had hit the genealogy mother-load. For those of you who get into this stuff, you know the feeling I was having at that moment. I had wanted colonial ancestry and now I had it in spades. Wow!
If you want to read about Thomas and Reuben Holcomb(e) and other ancestors of mine, follow this link to my Genealogy Page at my other blog and click-on the My Family Genealogy Links toward the bottom of that page.Something else happened that day, the ancestry bug really bit me and I got serious. I started searching the web for everything I could find on Thomas Holcombe. This led me to the Holcombe Family Website. Here I found detailed information on my line of the family and much more. It was awesome and the information lead to more information. I would spend the next couple of years trying to get a handle on all of that information. I would also make mistakes, get things wrong, fail to cross-check information or verify the facts. It was definitely a learning process and that process continues to this day.
What was interesting about my initial find was that my Reuben had just been added to the Holcombe Website in 2007. That was the year that one of his descendants provided the website with a connection to him. It just wasn't there prior to that and so I could never find it. But I have also been lucky as Thomas Holcombe and his allied families are well documented. The discovery opened the floodgates for me. Since that time, I have accumulated over 1000 documents about my family from many sources: photo's, maps, places, names, dates. I have census records, passenger records, military records, local histories, burial information and other documents. I have also broadened my search to include more publications, additional family furnished information and numerous cemetery visits in Wisconsin and Illinois.
In about 10 years (but mostly just the last three or four) I went from knowing just a small amount about my family history to becoming the "family historian." I feel so much richer for the experience, so much more connected to places and history of this country and so grateful to all of those who have done the hard work and made their discoveries available to the rest of us. It all goes back to that Friday afternoon, where with low expectations, grasping at straws, I typed some family names into the Google search box.